How Should We Deal with Our Father Who Wastes Our Money on Non-Essentials? - Islamweb.com
How Should We Deal with Our Father Who Wastes Our Money on Non-Essentials? Question : Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings. I am an unmarried young man in my mid-twenties. My family consists of 7 siblings, my mother, and my father. I am—praise be to God—employed with a good salary. My father has been insisting and asking me to give him money since I was a teenager. When I got employed two years ago, I took out a large loan and paid off most of my father's debts, bought him a car, and made him swear not to take on new debt and not to burden himself with loans so he could enjoy his retirement salary. However, he took on more than one debt, and now has no spending money left at all. He depends on me and my sister for his daily expenses, paying electricity and water bills, and some household needs. I am a man who fears God and do not want to be disobedient to my father. Since we were young, we have been paying our father without benefit. Every period he says it's jus...